Following; what both sides expect after a follow on social media

Have you ever been disappointed or annoyed with someone you follow on social media? Or have you ever been the victim of a wall stalker who always seems to know the latest news in your life? If you’ve been on social media long enough, chances are you have experienced some form of awkwardness on both […]

Good black men are invisible to shallow minds

Black women have been complaining for years about their inability to find good black men. There is are plenty of black men to choose from, but where are the ones who are faithful, stay and raise their children, (especially their sons), work legitimate job(s) to support their household. Some believe black males are often raised […]

Lost causes make the best success stories

Today is Good Friday, and although I am not a deeply religious person, I’d like to think I am spiritual. This week, I found myself thinking about lost causes and what it takes for someone to turn them around. After all, who doesn’t like a good come back story? Unfortunately, changing the world is easier […]

Do people really change or do they make better choices?

There are so many sayings associated with people’s ability to change. A leopard doesn’t change it’s spots, or you can’t change someone they have to want to change, and of course change doesn’t come easy. Most people would agree, change is difficult. So maybe learning to make better choices is more feasible than outright change. […]